"The divine is recognized as having both heterosexual elements and homosexual elements, and attributes far beyond our physical understanding. Aspects of the Goddess and God unite to form the cycles of physical life and creation, honoring the heterosexual, while other aspects unite honoring the homosexual nature of the divine. Both are important aspects of creation. Even science is now recognizing that both orientations, and bisexuality, have always occurred in nature, in the animal kingdom. Modern witches look to the wisdom of the animal kingdom, those who have not lost their way and connection with the divine, to lead us back to our true roots, our true nature.
As Aleister Crowley suggested, whereas heterosexual relationships help keep the cycles of life going in the physical plane, homosexual relationships - not directing their energy to the physical conception - directs energy to magical pursuits, perhaps continuing the life cycles of the magical realms, such as the collective unconscious.”
Investing In Your Failure: Toxic Relationships
The insidious nature of toxic relationships is that in by staying in relationship with people who are not good for you can chip away at your self-esteem and ability to function. This is not to mean that people themselves are toxic, it’s just that the “relationship” is toxic to your health, happiness and well-being. The default of life is happiness so if someone is making you unhappy or enforcing misery on you tell them goodbye and that misery aint’t your game. It may work for some people but not me.